Abstract:This paper endeavors to analyze the phasic formats and pragmatic intention of playful conflict used by family members. It attempts to provide a complete description of the formats of initiation, maintenance and escalation, termination stages and the function. Within the framework of Turn-taking System and The Relevance Theory，this paper places much more emphasis on the features of launching, expanding and ceasing a playful conflict. The study aims to analyze the pragmatic intention of a playful conflict violating the turn-taking rules and the relevance theory. 

Keywords: family members, playful conflict, phasic formats, turn-taking relevance

摘要:本文分析了家庭成员间的假冲突话语的各阶段特征和语用功能，试图对假冲突话语的起始、展开、结束各阶段的方式和使用意图进行研究。依据话轮系统和关联理论，本文更注重分析家庭成员间日常对话中假冲突话语的产生、展开、消灭的方式特点，探讨了在违反话轮转换系统与关联理论的情况下家假冲突话语的使用意图。

关键词：家庭成员，假冲突话语，各阶段方式，话轮，关联