Abstract: David Herbert Lawrence (1885-1930) is one of the greatest writers in British literature. He explores the hetero-relationship in his works. Some of his works, because of touching upon “sex”, were banned at his time. His books were regarded as obscene publications during that time. But nowadays his works are translated into many kinds of languages and read by people all over the world. In this paper, it analyzes the love in his most famous novel Sons and Lovers. In Lawrence’s view, love should be combined both sexuality and spiritual communication, otherwise, love will be fruitless. Thus, Sons and Lovers is kind of autobiographical, through analysis of the three pairs in this paper; it will help us have a better understanding of Lawrence’s attitudes towards love.

Key words: D.H. Lawrence; love; Sons and Lovers

摘要：戴维.赫伯特.劳伦斯（1885-1930），英国文学史伟大的作家，他的作品致力于探索两性关系。在他所处的年代，他的一些作品由于涉及“性”而被禁止，甚至于被认为是淫秽刊物而被封杀。而今天他的作品已经被译成多种语言，发行世界各地。本论文通过对劳伦斯的作品《儿子与情人》中三对情人爱情的分析，研究劳伦斯的爱情观。劳伦斯认为完美的爱情是灵与肉的统一，缺一不可。《儿子与情人》被认为是劳伦斯的自传性质的小说，本文希望通过对《儿子与情人》的分析，帮助我们更好的理解劳伦斯的爱情观。

关键词：劳伦斯；爱情；《儿子与情人》