摘要：孝敬父母、友爱亲朋的亲情观，是初中生的核心素养之一；强化初中生的亲情观，是新一轮思想品德课程突出学科核心素养改革的重要内容。来自淮安、常州的6所城区初中生的调查表明，目前部分初中生的亲情观比较淡薄，初中生与父母的冲突，甚至流血事件屡见不鲜。产生原因既有社会风气的影响、家庭氛围的熏陶、学校教育的不足,也有学生自身的问题。因此，只有个人、家庭、学校、社会达成重视初中生亲情观培养的共识，制定初中生亲情观培养对策，共同配合，四管齐下，才能帮助初中生形成正确的亲情观、人生观！

关键词：城区初中生；亲情观；亲情教育

Abstract:Honor their parents, love family and family values, is one of the core qualities of junior high school students; strengthen the family concept of junior high school students, is the important content of the new round of Ideological and moral courses to highlight the core quality of the discipline. From Huaian, Changzhou 6 city junior high school student’s survey shows that the current part of the junior high school students' family view is relatively weak, the conflict between junior high school students and their parents, and even bloodshed is not uncommon. The reasons are not only the influence of social culture, the influence of family culture, the shortage of school education and the problems of students themselves. Therefore, only individual, family, school and society reached attached to the junior middle school students family culture of the consensus view, to develop junior high school students' family cultivation measures, together with, a four pronged to help junior high school students to form correct family outlook, outlook on life!

Key Words: junior middle school students in urban areas, family view, reason, countermeasures